I have made being my husbands helper a priority .... And God says its not good for him to be alone I have made being my husbands helper/ help mate a priority .... I did not choose my husband over my son - I made the mistake of thinking my sister could help me like I could and tried to help her with her Husband and its hurt my son to think I choose my husband over my son I did not much like when I returned to Canada I did not choose my son over my husband I always and ever choose the real choice that is God all other choices are illusions the only choice is ever God https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r7nEltyhaYM